It is fatally hard to forgive a cheating ex, especially when you have already given a lot of times and gone through all kinds of pain in your relationship. Trust is a basic commodity in it. Without trust, the bond will not be in a harmonious state. One will keep on bringing up the past in an argument and redundancy always has its limits.
The short answer is that love cannot conquer a cheating ex. But, love can bring a cheating ex to his or her knees. It can make your ex become completely overwhelmed with guilt and want nothing more than to make things right between the two of you again. It can also make you want nothing more than to work things out. It isn’t the fact that you love each other that matters most. It’s how you use the love you have for each other.
The thing is, only love can make a way for time to move faster to heal all wounds.
Love does conquer all. You were born because of it. Therefore it is enough and the best cure for an aching heart as long as you keep a positive attitude.
There will be a difficult process, but as long as you work it out together, everything will go smoothly again in the future. There is no need to end your bond with him if it was pretty good before it happened.
If you can’t seem to find a way to forgive him, then it is best for you to think it over first. Take one step at a time. If you feel that parting ways is the technique to have peace of mind, then it would be better to go on without him. Bitterness does not make you a better person than he is. Always make sure that you will be able to take the longing and the time to be wasted being away with each other when what you really want is to be with each other again.
Take your time to think it over; the decision will still be yours.
If you know that discomfort will only rule in you if you will still be back in each other’s arms, then maybe it’s time for you to give a second thought about your relationship. Peace of mind should always come first. No relationship is perfect. But cheating is not the end of it all. Keep a positive attitude. It is not going to be a wrong choice to give a person another chance. Just prepare yourself; don’t give everything you have this time. Leave some for yourself, in that way, the next drama would be so much easier to handle.
Warning! It is so easy to make the same mistakes that other people make at times like this. Make sure you don’t make this one relationship killing mistake: